Friday, March 5, 2010

You're not my Mommy

My sister is dating a guy who has an almost 3 year old little girl and a one year old little boy. Things are going well. Yay! Potential cousins for Ellie and Addie! LOL.

The little girl likes my sister a lot and my sister has done a really good job of actively playing with her and becoming her friend.

Anyway... recently the little girl has started acting up sometimes when my sister stays over. I'm guessing it has to do with her trying to make sense of her parents getting divorce. I'm guessing that she's dealing with trying to understand who this new lady is and why Mommy is no longer in the house. Is this lady trying to take Mommy's place? Do I need to love this lady? Is it ok if I still love my Mommy? Things like that.

It breaks my heart thinking about it. I wonder how Ellie would respond if she was in a similar situation. My guess is not well.

I'd love to hear any thoughts or advice people might have for how my sister could handle the situation. I have some ideas myself but it's time for me to go home now.

Have a great weekend!

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